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Protect Your Child’s Inheritance in a Second Marriage

Protect Your Child’s Inheritance in a Second Marriage

Having a revocable trust may or may not protect assets for biological children on the death of their parent if the parent has remarried. This is why a recent article from the New Hampshire Union Leader, “Know the Law: Ensuring Assets go where you want in your revocable trust,” advises readers to speak with an experienced estate planning attorney about how to protect your child’s inheritance in a second marriage.

Surviving spouses in many states are permitted to claim an elective share of their deceased spouse’s estate to avoid being disinherited or being inadequately provided for when the spouse dies. If the decedent has children, the surviving spouse is entitled in some states to one-third of the probate estate. In some states, revocable trust assets are not automatically included as part of the decedent’s probate estate.

If there are assets in a revocable trust for children, they may be protected if the surviving spouse waives testate distribution and decides they’d rather claim the statutory elective share. Under certain circumstances, the surviving spouse could ask the court to set aside transfers of assets made into the revocable trust. If the court determines the transfers were invalid, then the revocable trust will become part of the probate estate and part of the elective share calculation.

In some states, the scope of the statutory elective share automatically includes assets in revocable trusts. Suppose someone moves from a state where this is not the case to a home in a state where revocable trust assets are considered part of the probate estate for elective share purposes and the estate is probated in the new state. In that case, that portion of the revocable trust assets will be available to the surviving spouse.

If the revocable trust isn’t fully funded and the assets intended to go into the trust remain in the spouse’s name, such as bank accounts and real estate, those assets will also be part of the probate estate.

Depending upon the plan rules and state laws, surviving spouses may also automatically be the beneficiary of any qualified retirement accounts, like 401(k)s or 403(b)s. Unless the spouse waives their right to the survivor benefits, they are, in most cases, the only person who will receive the pension assets.

Concerns about not disinheriting children from a prior marriage are often addressed through estate planning. However, a pre-nuptial agreement could also define what each spouse would be entitled to in the event of a divorce or when each spouse dies.

A consultation with an estate planning attorney in your state should take place to protect your child’s inheritance in a second marriage.  It’s best to address the issues before walking down the aisle to prevent any misunderstandings in the future and start a new marriage with a clean slate. If you would like to learn more about remarriage protection, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: New Hampshire Union Leader (Aug. 18, 2025) “Know the Law: Ensuring Assets go where you want in your revocable trust”

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Options when Inheriting a House

Options when Inheriting a House

When someone inherits a home, the emotional connection often competes with practical concerns. You may want to preserve the memory, move in, rent it, or sell it. However, each path comes with financial, legal and tax implications. Understanding your options when inheriting a house can help you make informed decisions that align with both your personal goals and long-term stability.

Assess the Property’s Condition and Financial Obligations

Start by evaluating the home’s physical state. A property that needs extensive repairs or updates may not be worth keeping if you can’t afford the upkeep. Get an inspection if necessary to understand the costs involved.

Next, confirm whether there’s a mortgage or any liens. Just because you inherited the house doesn’t mean it’s fully paid off. If the mortgage is assumable, you may be able to assume it. If not, the balance will need to be paid off, refinanced, or covered through the estate.

You should also factor in property taxes, insurance, maintenance costs and potential homeowners association fees. These factors will impact the long-term affordability of maintaining the house.

Consider Your Use and Intentions

Decide whether you want to live in the home, rent it out, or sell it. Each choice has different tax implications:

  • Selling the home may trigger capital gains tax. However, heirs typically benefit from a step-up in basis, meaning the home’s value resets to fair market value at the date of death. That often reduces or eliminates capital gains.
  • Renting the home can generate income. However, it turns you into a landlord with all the responsibilities that entails. You’ll need to address local rental laws and potential property management needs.
  • Living in the home could be beneficial if it aligns with your lifestyle and financial situation. However, you’ll need to ensure that it is properly titled and insured in your name.

Address Estate and Title Matters

The home must be legally transferred to you before you can make changes. This typically happens through the probate process, unless the home was held in a trust or jointly titled with rights of survivorship.

An estate or probate attorney can help navigate these legal processes, especially if other heirs are involved or if disputes arise. Once the title is in your name, you can take formal ownership actions, such as refinancing or selling.

Don’t Delay Financial Planning for the Property

Remember, you have options when inheriting a house. Inheriting a home may significantly affect your estate and tax planning. You should update your will, consider creating a trust and review your insurance coverage. If you plan to keep the home in the long term, it should be integrated into your personal financial strategy.

Some heirs feel overwhelmed by the burden of inherited property. Selling may feel like a loss. However, it may be the wisest choice depending on your goals and the home’s condition. If you would like to learn more about how to manage inherited property, please visit our previous posts. 

Reference: SmartAsset (February 17, 2025) “What to Do When You Inherit a House”

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How Do You Protect Your Child’s Inheritance in a Second Marriage?

How Do You Protect Your Child’s Inheritance in a Second Marriage?

A recent article from MSN, “’I’m 15 years older’: My second wife says she will pass my estate onto my sons. What could go wrong?” presents a question from a man with two adult sons from a prior marriage with $1 million in personal net worth. He’s wondering whether to rely solely on his wife’s verbal assurance to pass his estate to the adult sons if he predeceases her. This begs the question: How do you protect your child’s inheritance in a second marriage?

The sons are successful in their careers and don’t need his money. The man says his wife is one of the most honest people he’s ever met. However, is trust enough?

Estate planning files are filled with broken promises, not because of dishonesty. Circumstances change, and things happen. Having an updated estate plan, including a trust to safeguard assets for children from a prior marriage, is the best way to ensure that their interests are protected.

A large age difference or a large disparity between the spouses’ assets makes it wise to take the extra steps to preserve assets for the next generation. Otherwise, there’s no requirement for the surviving spouse to pass the assets on to the children.

If the surviving spouse remarries, the assets could even end up with children of their surviving spouse.

There are time-tested ways to distribute assets to children from a prior marriage to ensure that the spouse is well cared for and the children are not disinherited. One way to do this is to use a will to divide assets between the surviving spouse and the children.

Another is to leave the home, if it is in your name only, to the surviving spouse as a life estate, so they will be able to live in it for the rest of their life. The house will need to be maintained, and property taxes paid during that time. When the spouse dies, the house can then be left to the children to sell or keep. This can become complicated if the children are in a hurry to sell the home and the surviving spouse has a long life expectancy.

Marital trusts, like a Spousal Lifetime Access Trust or SLAT, are used to leave assets to the surviving spouse, while protecting the children’s inheritance. They can also be used to control how the assets in the trust are used. Funds can be earmarked for college, or if a child requires rehabilitation, the trust can fund it or set a requirement before distributions are made.

Tax benefits using a marital trust are higher than those for a straightforward inheritance, another reason to use a marital trust.

Note, this is not an issue to be resolved with a pre- or post-nuptial agreement. A will goes into effect upon your passing, and a trust becomes active once it is established. A pre- or post-nuptial is a good idea for a second marriage with age and net worth differences. However, this kind of situation requires a will and a trust.

Talk with an experienced estate planning attorney to create an estate plan to protect your child’s inheritance in a second marriage It will take the burden off all of you, since the decisions for asset distribution will be in place, and you can focus on enjoying your life with your new spouse. If you would like to learn more about inheritance planning, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: MSN (May 3, 2025) “’I’m 15 years older’: My second wife says she will pass my estate onto my sons. What could go wrong?”

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Older Couples Should Consider Premarital Agreement

Marriage later in life brings special joys—and specific legal and financial considerations. Whether it’s a second marriage, a partnership after raising children, or finding love after retirement, older couples often have more complex financial situations than younger newlyweds. Older couples should consider a premarital agreement.

Assets, retirement savings, real estate and inheritances accumulated over decades must be handled with care. A premarital agreement (often called a prenuptial agreement) is one of the most practical tools to protect individual and family interests. Far from being a sign of mistrust, a well-crafted agreement fosters transparency, protects loved ones and reduces the risk of disputes if the marriage ends through death or divorce.

Why Older Couples Should Plan with a Premarital Agreement

Older couples frequently bring established financial histories into marriage. They may own homes, businesses, investment portfolios, or have obligations like alimony or child support from previous relationships. Some may wish to preserve assets for adult children or grandchildren.

Without a premarital agreement, state laws—rather than personal wishes—may determine how property is divided upon divorce or death. In many cases, a surviving spouse is entitled to a significant portion of the estate, even if the deceased spouse intended to leave more to children from a prior marriage.

A premarital agreement allows couples to customize these outcomes, ensuring that their wishes are respected and that their marriage starts with full financial clarity.

Key Issues to Address in a Premarital Agreement

Premarital agreements typically address how assets and debts will be handled both during the marriage and in the event of divorce or death. Common topics include:

  • Identifying separate versus marital property
  • Defining how jointly acquired assets will be divided
  • Specifying inheritance rights for children from previous relationships
  • Clarifying responsibility for debts incurred before or during the marriage
  • Determining spousal support or waiving it altogether

Couples may also include agreements about healthcare decision-making, although these issues are often handled through separate estate planning documents.

While some topics, like child custody or child support for minor children, cannot typically be negotiated in advance, most financial and property-related matters are fair game.

Protecting Heirs and Family Interests

For older individuals with children from previous marriages, a premarital agreement can protect family inheritances. Without one, surviving spouses could inherit property that parents intended to pass directly on to their children.

Using a premarital agreement in combination with updated wills, trusts and beneficiary designations creates a comprehensive plan that reflects your true intentions and avoids accidental disinheritance.

It’s also an act of love—shielding family members from costly, painful legal disputes and ensuring that everyone understands and respects your wishes.

Premarital Agreements Strengthen Communication

Discussing finances can be uncomfortable. However, it builds stronger foundations. A premarital agreement encourages open conversations about money, values and expectations. It forces couples to talk about important topics—retirement plans, caregiving needs and financial obligations to others—that might otherwise be overlooked.

Rather than undermining romance, these discussions show respect for each other’s histories and futures. They create shared understanding and prevent surprises down the road.

The Importance of Independent Legal Advice for Each Spouse

For a premarital agreement to be legally enforceable, each party should have their own attorney review the document. This ensures that both individuals understand their rights and obligations and that the agreement cannot be challenged later due to claims of coercion or misunderstanding.

Older couples should consider a premarital agreement. Working with an experienced estate planning or family law attorney ensures that the agreement is tailored to your state’s specific requirements and your unique circumstances. If you would like to learn more about planning for older couples, please visit our previous posts.

References: American College of Trust and Estate Counsel (ACTEC) (Nov. 5, 2020) “What Is a Prenuptial Agreement?” and Hello! Magazine (April 2025) “King Charles and Queen Camilla’s Separate Homes: Was a Marital Agreement Involved?”

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Steps to Avoid Inheritance Issues in Second Marriages

Steps to Avoid Inheritance Issues in Second Marriages

Second marriages often bring joy, stability and a fresh start. However, they can also create complicated estate planning challenges. When one or both spouses have children from previous relationships, the risk of conflict over inheritance increases dramatically. Individuals often assume that love and goodwill will prevent disputes. However, without clear legal documentation, misunderstandings, unintentional disinheritance and even litigation can follow. Protecting your spouse and your children—biological and step—requires planning that accounts for family dynamics, legal priorities and financial realities. There are steps you can take to avoid inheritance issues in a second marriage.

Understand How the Law Treats Second Marriages

State intestacy laws (those that apply when someone dies without a will) typically prioritize spouses and biological children. In many cases, if a person dies without a clear estate plan, the surviving spouse will receive a significant share, possibly even everything, leaving stepchildren with little or nothing.

Even with a will, challenges can arise. A surviving spouse may claim an “elective share,” a legal right to a portion of the estate that can override the terms of a will. Children from a previous relationship may be unintentionally disinherited if all assets pass to the surviving spouse, who then distributes them according to their own will, or not at all.

These risks are exceptionally high in cases where only one spouse brought significant assets to the marriage or when there is a considerable age difference, business ownership, or a family history of conflict.

Use Trusts to Protect Both Spouse and Children

One of the most effective tools for second marriage estate planning is a trust. A revocable living trust allows you to maintain control over your assets during your lifetime, while outlining exactly how they should be distributed after your death.

For example, a Qualified Terminable Interest Property (QTIP) trust can provide income to a surviving spouse for life, with the remainder passing to the deceased spouse’s children. This structure protects both parties: the surviving spouse is financially supported, and the children are assured a share of the estate later.

Trusts can also help avoid probate, preserve privacy and reduce the risk of disputes. Unlike a simple will, a trust allows for more detailed instructions and layered planning.

Keep Beneficiary Designations Up to Date

Many assets—like life insurance policies, retirement accounts and bank accounts—pass directly to the person named as a beneficiary, regardless of what’s written in your will. That means an ex-spouse could still receive your IRA if you never updated the paperwork.

Review your beneficiary designations after remarriage to ensure that they reflect your current wishes. In blended families, dividing assets across multiple accounts may be appropriate to benefit both your spouse and children directly.

You should also consider how these accounts fit into your broader estate plan to ensure no one is unintentionally left out.

Communicate Your Intentions Clearly

Estate disputes often stem from unmet expectations. Children may assume they will inherit certain assets, only to learn after a parent’s death that those assets were left to a stepparent. Likewise, a surviving spouse may be surprised to learn that children from a previous marriage are co-owners of the family home.

The best way to avoid this confusion is to talk openly with family members about your wishes. Explain your decisions, address concerns and show how your plan provides for all parties involved. These conversations may be uncomfortable. However, they are often the most effective way to prevent conflict.

Taking these steps to avoid inheritance issues in a second marriage can mean the difference between family harmony and chaos. Putting these intentions in writing with the help of an estate planning attorney ensures that everyone’s rights and responsibilities are legally protected. If you would like to learn more about inheritance and estate planning, please visit our previous posts. 

 

References: CBC News (April 1, 2025) “Director Norman Jewison’s wife cut him off from family, coerced him to change $30M will, lawsuits claimed” and Marriage.com (Oct 12, 2023) “5 Tips to Avoid Inheritance Issues in Second Marriages”

 

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How Does a No-Contest Clause Protect Your Will?

How Does a No-Contest Clause Protect Your Will?

In a perfect world, you create your will with the guidance of an experienced estate planning attorney, your heirs inherit their legacy and everyone lives happily ever after. In the real world, however, it doesn’t always work out that way. Every year, families scrap over inheritances, says a recent article from Market Watch, “Avoid drama with your will by adding this to your estate plan.” What can you do? Consult with your estate planning attorney about the possibility of including a no-contest clause in your estate plan. How does a no-contest clause protect your will?

This can deter heirs from challenging your will by creating a no-win situation if they challenge the will in court. When a no-contest clause is included in the will, the beneficiary risks losing their entire inheritance.

The goal is to avoid challenges resulting from an emotional response to grief, which is not unusual, or a long-standing family resentment emerging after the death of a parent. People who are quick to pursue litigation will think twice with a no-contest clause.

Is it possible your heirs might challenge your will? Even if the likelihood is low, it’s worth adding the clause. Estate litigation is lengthy, expensive and emotionally draining. Second marriages, economic disparities among siblings, or estranged offspring provide fertile grounds for will challenges. However, even happy families sometimes find themselves in court battles when large inheritances are at stake.

Another factor: seniors who live longer than expected may have heirs who thought they were receiving a substantial inheritance. When there’s a smaller inheritance, the surprise can lead to litigation. Unfortunately, the cost of estate litigation can significantly reduce the value of an inheritance, making it even smaller.

Warren Buffett’s advice to talk about your estate plan with your adult children is a straightforward and sound approach for most families. Offspring taken by surprise in a time of emotional turmoil are more likely to become contentious.

You don’t have to reveal every detail to your heirs. However, you can educate them about the contents of the will and the estate in general. Letting them know about the no-contest cause and your reasons for adding it may preempt strong reactions if they don’t learn about it until after you’ve passed, and they can’t get answers to their questions.

If the family is a blended one, someone is going to be left out entirely, or there are nuances, such as one person inheriting outright while another receives distribution through a trust over time, there’s the possibility of a challenge. If you plan to give assets to someone who isn’t a family member, like a charity or a close friend, the family may unite to challenge the will.

Work with an estate planning attorney to discuss how a no-contest clause can protect your will. A no-contest clause isn’t a guarantee there won’t be a challenge after you’ve died. However, it’s a simple thing to insert into your will and reduces the risk. If you would like to learn more about no-contest clauses, please visit our previous posts. 

Reference: Market Watch (March 14, 2026) “Avoid drama with your will by adding this to your estate plan”

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Revising Estate Planning Ensures Assets Are Protected Post-Divorce

Revising Estate Planning Ensures Assets Are Protected Post-Divorce

Divorce changes not only a person’s financial and personal life but also the way their assets will be handled after death. Many people overlook the importance of updating estate planning documents after a divorce, which can result in unintended beneficiaries receiving inheritances or former spouses retaining control over critical financial and medical decisions. Revising your estate planning ensures that assets are protected and aligned with post-divorce goals.

How Divorce Affects Your Estate Plan

Divorce changes personal and financial circumstances and how assets will be distributed after death. Many forget to update their estate plans, leaving former spouses as beneficiaries or decision-makers. Without revisions, an ex-spouse could inherit assets, manage finances, or make medical decisions in an emergency.

Key documents that need immediate attention include wills, trusts, powers of attorney and beneficiary designations on life insurance and retirement accounts. Updating these ensures that assets go to intended heirs and that financial and medical decisions remain in trusted hands.

Updating Wills and Trusts

A divorce does not automatically remove an ex-spouse from an estate plan. If a will or trust still names the former spouse as a primary beneficiary or executor, they may inherit assets or retain authority over the estate. Updating key documents includes:

  • Revising a will to name new beneficiaries and executors
  • Amending or revoking any revocable trusts that include the former spouse
  • Reviewing state laws, some jurisdictions automatically void spousal provisions upon divorce, while others do not

Failing to update these documents may lead to unnecessary legal battles or the distribution of assets against the person’s wishes.

Changing Beneficiary Designations

Many financial assets pass directly to named beneficiaries outside of a will, making beneficiary updates essential after divorce. Documents to review include:

  • Life insurance policies and retirement accounts, such as 401(k)s and IRAs
  • Payable-on-death (POD) and transfer-on-death (TOD) accounts
  • Jointly held assets or real estate with right of survivorship

If an ex-spouse remains listed as a beneficiary, they may still receive these assets, regardless of the divorce decree. Updating beneficiary designations ensures that assets go to the intended individuals.

Adjusting Powers of Attorney and Healthcare Directives

Divorce often necessitates appointing new individuals to manage financial and medical decisions in case of incapacity. Changes to consider include:

  • Naming a new power of attorney for financial matters
  • Revising a healthcare proxy to designate a trusted individual for medical decisions
  • Ensuring that living wills and advance directives reflect current wishes

Leaving a former spouse in control of these decisions can lead to unintended complications, particularly in medical emergencies.

Secure Your Legacy with an Updated Estate Plan

Divorce requires more than financial separation—it demands a complete estate plan review to prevent unintended consequences. Revising your estate planning to reflect your current wishes is critical to protecting your assets post-divorce. If you would like to learn more about planning post-divorce, please visit our previous posts. 

References: Investopedia (June 25, 2024) “Rewriting Your Will After Divorce” and Justia (September 2024) Estate Planning After Divorce

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How to Leave an Inheritance to Your Child but Not Their Spouse

How to Leave an Inheritance to Your Child but Not Their Spouse

As a parent, you’ve likely spent years building up your savings and assets, hoping to leave a legacy for your children. However, one concern many parents have is ensuring that the inheritance they pass on stays with their child and doesn’t end up benefiting a spouse. Whether out of love for your children or worrying about future divorces, it’s natural to consider inheritance planning strategies to safeguard your hard-earned assets. If you are concerned about your child’s relationship, you will want to learn how to leave an inheritance to your child but not their spouse.

A trust is one of the most common and effective ways to ensure that your child is the sole benefactor of their inheritance. By setting up a trust, you control how and when your assets are distributed. A trust can be created now while you’re still alive or can take effect upon your passing.

You can name the trust as the beneficiary of your retirement accounts, life insurance, or other assets. The trustee, a person you designate, will follow your instructions regarding when and how the money or property is given to your child.

While prenuptial agreements used to carry a certain stigma, that is no longer the case. These agreements have become more common, especially among younger generations. A prenuptial agreement is signed before marriage and details how a couple’s financial matters will be handled in case of a divorce.

If your child is open to the idea, they can use a prenuptial agreement to protect their future inheritance. This legal document can specify which assets belong to your child, preventing a spouse from making any claims.

If your child is already married, safeguarding their inheritance is still an option. A postnuptial agreement works similarly to a prenuptial agreement but is signed after the wedding. This document can outline which assets, including future inheritances, will remain separate in the event of a divorce.

Discussing a postnuptial agreement might feel tricky, as it requires open communication between your child and their spouse. However, it can be essential for ensuring that your child’s financial future remains protected.

While legal strategies like trusts, prenuptial agreements and postnuptial agreements are essential to inheritance planning, financial tools also play a role. Working with a trusted estate planning professional who provides the legal competence and the knowledge to examine your complete financial background can help you evaluate the best way to structure your assets and accounts to minimize potential risks. They can guide you on which accounts to designate for inheritance and which might be more vulnerable to claims in a divorce.

If you’re ready to protect your child’s financial future, an estate planning attorney will show you how to leave an inheritance to your child, but not their spouse. If you would like to learn more about inheritance planning, please visit our previous posts. 

Reference: Northwestern Mutual (Apr. 22, 2022) “Can I Leave Money to My Kids But Not Their Spouses?

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Women should Plan for a Second Retirement

Women should Plan for a Second Retirement

Many spouses design their retirement finances and estate plans with their spouses. However, planning for the second phase of retirement and estate plans also needs to be done. Women should plan for a second retirement. When the first spouse dies, the surviving spouse would be well served by a plan for the “second retirement,” as explored in a recent article from Nasdaq, “I’m a Financial Expert: 7 Ways Ever Woman Can Prepare for a ‘Second Retirement.’”

In 2021, data from the U.S. Census Bureau shows that 30% of all older women were widows. There were also more than three times as many widows as widowers.

How do you plan? It depends on your age and financial situation. For instance, becoming a widow in your 60s is very different from becoming widowed in your 80s. If your network of friends and family was through your spouse, this may also change dramatically after their death.

The most important question is what the household income will be upon losing the first spouse. This must be considered if the decedent had a pension, annuity, or other income source that stopped upon their death. A surviving spouse can’t claim a deceased spouse’s Social Security benefits in addition to their own. You can only receive one of two benefits—either your retirement or survivor benefit.

Some pensions end upon the account owner’s death, while some allow for survivor benefits. These are usually a percentage of the original amount, or they may offer a lump sum payment.

Living costs will change when the first spouse dies. The surviving spouse may be able to move to a smaller home or sell a second car. However, certain costs will go away. Meanwhile, other costs may occur, like one-time taxes on inherited IRAs and taxes on the sale of property and vehicles. Losing the spouse might mean some services, like home maintenance, will need to be paid for.

The death of a spouse will incur certain legal and administrative costs. If there was no will, probate is expensive and will be necessary. An estate planning attorney may be needed to help settle an estate if there was no will, while costs will be less if a will and trusts were created before the spouse died.

Major changes in circumstances like the death of a spouse can throw even the highest functioning people into a difficult emotional state. Women should plan for a second retirement that will help make the transition into their new life easier, or at least as easy as possible.

Speak frankly with an estate planning attorney about revising your estate planning documents and preparing for the second retirement. There will be more than enough to deal with at the time; it will be better if planning can be done in advance. If you would like to learn more about retirement planning for women, please visit our previous posts. 

Reference: Nasdaq (August 17, 2024) “I’m a Financial Expert: 7 Ways Ever Woman Can Prepare for a ‘Second Retirement’”

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Estate Planning is Critical for a Single Parent

Estate Planning is Critical for a Single Parent

Raising a child or children by yourself is challenging on many levels. Single parents have very little spare time or resources. Estate planning is critical for a single parent, even more than if another parent was involved, as discussed in a recent article from The News-Enterprise, “Single parents must be deliberate in estate planning.”

Two key decisions to be made with minor children are who to name in a will as their guardian, the person who will raise them if the parent dies or is incapacitated, and who will be in charge of their finances. If another biological parent is involved in their care, things can get complicated.

Whether or not the other parent will be named as a guardian who will take custody of the child(ren) depends on whether or not they have any legal custody of the children. If the parents were married at one time but the marriage ended after the child was born, there is likely to be a separation agreement addressing custody.

If both parents share custody, the surviving parent would take custody of the child. This is standard practice, regardless of who has primary custody.

But if the parents never married and no one pursued an order of paternity or entered a custody order recognizing the legal rights of the noncustodial parent, or if a parent has lost any legal rights to the child, the parent needs to name a guardian and an alternate guardian.

Even if there is a surviving parent, you’ll want to name at least one guardian and one contingent guardian. There are instances when the noncustodial parent prefers not to become the custodial parent, even if the child’s other parent has died. There are also cases where the noncustodial parent is not fit to raise a child, so having other potential guardians named is a better idea.

Separate from the guardianship issue is the decision of who should manage the assets left for the child. You have a right to name the person of your choice to oversee these funds, regardless of whether or not the other parent is living. In most cases, there are two general options:

Conservator: This is a court-appointed person who is responsible for any assets left outside of a trust or any income received by the child. The conservator can be the same person as the guardian, but it does not have to be the same.

Trustee: A best practice in estate planning for a child is to leave the property in trust to be distributed for specific purposes, like education, health care, and general support. Assets can be left in trust through a last will and testament or through a trust set up while the parent is living to benefit the child.

Estate planning is critical for a single parent. An estate planning attorney should be consulted to determine how best to structure planning when there is only one parent. This protects the child and gives the parent peace of mind. If you would like to learn more about planning as a single parent, please visit our previous posts. 

Reference: The News-Enterprise (July 5, 2024) “Single parents must be deliberate in estate planning”

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