Steps to Avoid Inheritance Issues in Second Marriages

May 13, 2025

Second marriages often bring joy, stability and a fresh start. However, they can also create complicated estate planning challenges. When one or both spouses have children from previous relationships, the risk of conflict over inheritance increases dramatically. Individuals often assume that love and goodwill will prevent disputes. However, without clear legal documentation, misunderstandings, unintentional disinheritance and even litigation can follow. Protecting your spouse and your children—biological and step—requires planning that accounts for family dynamics, legal priorities and financial realities. There are steps you can take to avoid inheritance issues in a second marriage.

Understand How the Law Treats Second Marriages

State intestacy laws (those that apply when someone dies without a will) typically prioritize spouses and biological children. In many cases, if a person dies without a clear estate plan, the surviving spouse will receive a significant share, possibly even everything, leaving stepchildren with little or nothing.

Even with a will, challenges can arise. A surviving spouse may claim an “elective share,” a legal right to a portion of the estate that can override the terms of a will. Children from a previous relationship may be unintentionally disinherited if all assets pass to the surviving spouse, who then distributes them according to their own will, or not at all.

These risks are exceptionally high in cases where only one spouse brought significant assets to the marriage or when there is a considerable age difference, business ownership, or a family history of conflict.

Use Trusts to Protect Both Spouse and Children

One of the most effective tools for second marriage estate planning is a trust. A revocable living trust allows you to maintain control over your assets during your lifetime, while outlining exactly how they should be distributed after your death.

For example, a Qualified Terminable Interest Property (QTIP) trust can provide income to a surviving spouse for life, with the remainder passing to the deceased spouse’s children. This structure protects both parties: the surviving spouse is financially supported, and the children are assured a share of the estate later.

Trusts can also help avoid probate, preserve privacy and reduce the risk of disputes. Unlike a simple will, a trust allows for more detailed instructions and layered planning.

Keep Beneficiary Designations Up to Date

Many assets—like life insurance policies, retirement accounts and bank accounts—pass directly to the person named as a beneficiary, regardless of what’s written in your will. That means an ex-spouse could still receive your IRA if you never updated the paperwork.

Review your beneficiary designations after remarriage to ensure that they reflect your current wishes. In blended families, dividing assets across multiple accounts may be appropriate to benefit both your spouse and children directly.

You should also consider how these accounts fit into your broader estate plan to ensure no one is unintentionally left out.

Communicate Your Intentions Clearly

Estate disputes often stem from unmet expectations. Children may assume they will inherit certain assets, only to learn after a parent’s death that those assets were left to a stepparent. Likewise, a surviving spouse may be surprised to learn that children from a previous marriage are co-owners of the family home.

The best way to avoid this confusion is to talk openly with family members about your wishes. Explain your decisions, address concerns and show how your plan provides for all parties involved. These conversations may be uncomfortable. However, they are often the most effective way to prevent conflict.

Taking these steps to avoid inheritance issues in a second marriage can mean the difference between family harmony and chaos. Putting these intentions in writing with the help of an estate planning attorney ensures that everyone’s rights and responsibilities are legally protected. If you would like to learn more about inheritance and estate planning, please visit our previous posts.

References: CBC News (April 1, 2025) “Director Norman Jewison’s wife cut him off from family, coerced him to change $30M will, lawsuits claimed” and Marriage.com (Oct 12, 2023) “5 Tips to Avoid Inheritance Issues in Second Marriages”

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Many Ways to Include a Charity in Your Estate Plan

May 6, 2025

Many people want to give back to their communities or support causes that reflect their values. Including charitable giving in your estate plan is one of the most meaningful ways to do that. Whether you’re passionate about education, health, the arts, or social justice, your legacy can continue to make an impact long after you’re gone. There are many ways to include a charity in your estate plan.

There’s no single right way to give. The best method depends on your financial situation, the assets you hold and your goals for your family and chosen charities. Thoughtful planning not only helps maximize your impact but can also provide tax advantages and avoid complications for your heirs.

1. Make a Bequest in Your Will

One of the most straightforward ways to give is by naming a charity in your will. This is known as a bequest. You can designate a specific dollar amount, a percentage of your estate, or a particular asset such as property or stocks. Bequests are flexible—you can update them at any time, and they allow you to support causes you care about without affecting your current finances.

2. Name a Charity as a Beneficiary

You can also name a charitable organization as a beneficiary on retirement accounts, life insurance policies, or payable-on-death bank accounts. This approach bypasses probate and allows the charity to receive the funds directly. It’s a simple and effective way to leave a gift without altering your will or trust.

3. Create a Charitable Remainder Trust

A charitable remainder trust (CRT) allows you to provide income to a beneficiary, such as a spouse or child, for a set number of years or for their lifetime. After that period ends, the remaining assets go to a designated charity. CRTs are useful for people who want to support loved ones during their lifetime and still give back to charity in the long run.

4. Set Up a Donor-Advised Fund

A donor-advised fund (DAF) lets you make a charitable contribution now, receive an immediate tax deduction, and recommend grants to charities over time. DAFs are especially appealing for people who want to involve family members in charitable decisions or support multiple causes over several years.

5. Donate Appreciated Assets

Gifting appreciated stock, real estate, or other valuable assets directly to a charity can be more tax-efficient than donating cash. When you donate an asset that has increased in value, you may avoid capital gains taxes while also claiming a charitable deduction based on the full market value.

6. Fund a Scholarship or Endowment

If you want your gift to support a specific purpose, such as education or research, consider funding a scholarship or endowment. These gifts often come with naming opportunities and provide long-term support for institutions or programs that align with your goals.

7. Involve Your Family in Your Giving Plan

Estate planning is also an opportunity to share your values with future generations. Involving your children or grandchildren in charitable giving decisions can help them understand your priorities and foster a spirit of generosity. It also helps reduce misunderstandings and promotes unity around your legacy.

There are many ways to include a charity in your estate plan. No matter how you choose to give, working with an estate planning attorney is important to ensure that your intentions are clearly documented and legally enforceable. Contact our estate planning firm to put the right planning in place now so that your charitable legacy can live on for generations. If you would like to learn more about charitable giving, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: Ameriprise Financial “Estate planning and charitable giving: Strategies to make an impact with your estate”

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Care for Your Pets After You Pass with a Pet Trust

May 1, 2025

Media mogul Oprah Winfrey has a trust fund for her dogs, as revealed in 2007 by a source to an Australian women’s magazine. How much she left to her beloved animal companions is thought to be in the millions, according to a recent article from Pets Radar, “Oprah’s dogs will inherit a $30 million fortune—here’s why.” However, you don’t need to be a billionaire to want to care for your pets after you pass using a pet trust.

A pet trust is a legally binding contract used to specify money to care for a pet in case of incapacity or death of the human owner. The trust is funded to care for the animal’s life and should include specific instructions for how the pet will be cared for. An experienced estate planning attorney can create a pet trust to comply with your state’s laws.

When creating a pet trust, consider how much money will be needed to pay for the pet’s care, considering the type of pet, their age, life expectancy and whether they have or might have health issues in the future. If you own multiple pets, the pet trust must address all their needs.

The funds are used to cover veterinary bills, food, grooming, housing and compensation, if needed, for a caretaker. The trust will also need to include a contingency provision in case the primary caregiver becomes incapacitated or can’t care for the pets and someone else needs to step into the role.

The pet trust should also include plans for what happens when the pet dies. Do you want them to be cremated or buried, and what do you want to happen to any remaining funds in the trust? The people who love their pets enough to create a pet trust often decide to leave any remaining funds in the trust to a local animal shelter.

A common question in creating a pet trust is this: should the same person who is taking care of the pets also oversee the assets in the trust? The trustee oversees the assets and pays the caretaker. The problem is, if the caretaker doesn’t use the funds to care for the pet as you’ve outlined in the trust, who will monitor the money or the care of the pet? Many people prefer to have two different people involved, just in case.

Can you simply ask an adult child to take care of your beloved pet if you become sick or if you die before the pet? In theory, the answer is yes. However, your adult child or anyone you ask to care for your pet is under no legal obligation, unless you’ve created a pet trust and they’ve agreed to take on the role of either caretaker or trustee or both.

If you don’t have someone to care for your pet, check with your local animal shelter. No-kill shelters often have arrangements where a fee or donation is used to ensure lifetime pet care for a companion animal.

Your estate planning attorney will know how to create a pet trust to care for your pets after you pass, providing you with the peace of mind knowing they won’t end up in a shelter or living on the streets. If you would like to learn more about pet trusts, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: Pets Radar (April 4, 2025) “Oprah’s dogs will inherit a $30 million fortune—here’s why”

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The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 3

The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 2 is out now!

April 10, 2025

The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 2 is out now! In this episode of the ESTATE OF THE UNION, Brad Wiewel is going to discuss gifting to grandchildren – is it a blessing or a curse?

As a great general rule, people who have grandchildren are entranced by them! They typically have plenty of photographs to share and stories to tell. These kids are perfect and always will be – right?

In this edition of the Estate of the Union bought to you by Texas Trust Law, Brad Wiewel has some advice for grandparents which may seem to be contrary to the general idea that making substantial gifts to those adorable grandkids is always the right and proper thing to do. Maybe Brad is getting a little bit jaded as he ages, or maybe his advice is worth considering – you get to decide! Is gifting to grandchildren a blessing or a curse?

In each episode of The Estate of The Union podcast, host and lawyer Brad Wiewel will give valuable insights into the confusing world of estate planning, making an often daunting subject easier to understand. It is Estate Planning Made Simple! The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 2 is out now! The episode can be found on Spotify, Apple podcasts, or anywhere you get your podcasts. If you would prefer to watch the video version, please visit our YouTube page. Please click on the links to listen to or watch the new installment of The Estate of The Union podcast. We hope you enjoy it.

Texas Trust Law focuses its practice exclusively in the area of wills, probate, estate planning, asset protection, and special needs planning. Brad Wiewel is Board Certified in Estate Planning and Probate Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization. We provide estate planning services, asset protection planning, business planning, and retirement exit strategies.

Understanding the Downsides of Joint Ownership

March 26, 2025

Many people add family members or spouses as joint owners of bank accounts, real estate, or investments to simplify estate planning and avoid probate. While joint ownership can offer convenience and asset access, it also presents serious risks that can lead to financial disputes, tax liabilities and legal challenges. Understanding the downsides of joint ownership is essential before making decisions that could impact your estate and beneficiaries.

What Is Joint Ownership?

Joint ownership means that two or more people share legal ownership of an asset. There are different forms of joint ownership, each with unique rights and implications. Some common types of joint ownership include:

Joint Tenancy with Right of Survivorship (JTWROS) – If one owner dies, the other owner(s) automatically inherit the asset. Common among spouses.
Tenancy in Common – Each owner holds a separate, distinct share of the property. Shares can be passed down in a will instead of automatically transferring to co-owners.
Tenancy by the Entirety – A unique form of joint ownership for married couples that offers protection from creditors in some states.
Joint Ownership of Bank Accounts – Gives all owners full access to funds, even if one person contributed all the money.

While these arrangements may seem beneficial, they can create unintended financial and legal consequences.

The Risks of Joint Ownership

1. Loss of Full Control Over the Asset

Adding a co-owner means you no longer have sole decision-making power. If you own property or an account jointly, the other person:

Must approve any sale or significant financial decision
Can legally withdraw funds or take actions you may disagree with
May refuse to cooperate in estate planning decisions

For example, if you add an adult child to your house deed, you cannot sell or refinance the home without their approval. If your relationship changes, legal conflicts may arise.

2. Exposure to the Co-Owner’s Debts and Liabilities

If a joint owner has debt, gets sued, or divorces, creditors can go after jointly owned assets. This means:

A co-owner’s financial troubles can result in liens or judgments against your property
The asset may be subject to seizure by creditors or division in a divorce settlement
You could lose control over the asset due to someone else’s financial mistakes

This is particularly risky when adding children or relatives with unstable finances or creditor issues.

3. Unintended Tax Consequences

Joint ownership can create tax problems, especially when transferring assets. Common tax issues include:

Capital gains taxes – If a property or investment is sold, the IRS may assess capital gains based on the original purchase price, not the market value at death.
Gift tax liability – Adding someone as a joint owner may be considered a taxable gift, requiring IRS reporting if it exceeds the gift tax exemption limit.
Loss of step-up in basis – Heirs who inherit assets outright get a “step-up” in tax basis to current market value, reducing capital gains taxes. With joint ownership, this benefit may be lost.

Without proper estate planning, heirs may owe more in taxes than necessary.

4. Complications in Estate Planning

Many people use joint ownership to avoid probate. However, this strategy can backfire. Risks include:

Disinheriting intended beneficiaries – If one joint owner survives, they get full ownership—even if your will says otherwise.
Unequal distribution of assets – If you own multiple assets jointly with different people, some heirs may receive more than intended.
Legal disputes – Family members may contest asset distribution if joint ownership conflicts with your will.

A well-structured trust or beneficiary designation often provides a more reliable way to pass down assets.

When Joint Ownership Might Be Appropriate

Despite its risks, joint ownership can be helpful in certain situations. For instance, it’s suitable if you trust the co-owner completely and want them to have full rights to the asset. There are also few drawbacks if the asset has minimal value or no tax consequences or if both parties contribute equally to the asset.

In most cases, estate planning tools such as trusts, payable-on-death accounts, or transfer-on-death deeds provide greater protection and control.

Protect Your Assets with Smart Estate Planning

While joint ownership may seem easy, it often creates more problems than it solves. Understanding the downsides of joint ownership is essential before making decisions that could impact your estate and beneficiaries. Before adding someone to your assets, it’s essential to consider the legal, financial and tax consequences. If you would like to learn more about joint ownership, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: Investopedia (March 02, 2024) “Joint Tenancy: Benefits and Pitfalls”

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Estate Planning Can Bridge the Gap Between Generational Wealth

March 19, 2025

Building wealth is only half the battle—ensuring that it lasts for future generations requires careful estate planning and strategic wealth management. Many families fail to implement a structured plan, leading to lost assets, unnecessary taxes and family disputes. Without the proper legal and financial strategies, even substantial inheritances can be squandered within a generation. Estate planning can bridge the gap between generational wealth; ensuring that wealth is protected, distributed according to the family’s wishes, and sustained for years to come.

Why Generational Wealth Often Fails to Last

Studies show that 70% of wealthy families lose their wealth by the second generation and 90% by the third. The primary causes include:

Lack of financial literacy – Heirs often receive wealth without a plan for responsible management.
Estate tax burdens – Without proper planning, substantial portions of an estate may be lost to federal and state taxes.
Legal disputes – Poorly structured wills and trusts often lead to costly inheritance battles.
Failure to adapt to changing financial laws – Inheritance laws, tax regulations and trust structures evolve over time.

Estate planning provides legal structures and safeguards to prevent these issues and ensure that family wealth remains intact.

How Estate Planning Protects Generational Wealth

Structuring Trusts for Long-Term Asset Protection:

Trusts are among the most effective tools for protecting wealth and ensuring that assets are passed down responsibly. Unlike a will, which simply distributes assets, trusts provide ongoing management and protection.

Common trust structures include:

Revocable Living Trusts – Allow individuals to control assets during their lifetime, while avoiding probate upon death.
Irrevocable Trusts – Provide stronger asset protection and tax advantages by permanently removing assets from the grantor’s estate.
Generation-Skipping Trusts (GSTs) – Allow assets to bypass one generation, reducing estate tax liability for grandchildren.

Trusts also allow customized inheritance distribution, such as delayed payouts, financial milestones, or incentives for responsible wealth management.

Minimizing Estate Taxes and Legal Fees:

High-net-worth individuals face significant estate tax challenges if wealth is not structured correctly. An estate planning attorney helps reduce tax exposure through:

Gifting strategies – Annual tax-free gifts to heirs reduce taxable estate size.
Charitable giving – Donating assets through charitable remainder trusts or donor-advised funds offers tax deductions while benefiting causes.
Family Limited Partnerships (FLPs) – These allow wealth to be transferred gradually, minimizing tax burdens.

Without tax planning, heirs may be forced to sell assets or businesses to cover tax liabilities.

Preventing Family Disputes Over Inheritance:

Even well-meaning families can experience conflict over wealth distribution. An estate planning attorney helps prevent disputes by:

Creating straightforward wills and trust agreements that specify asset distribution.
Including business succession plans to ensure seamless leadership transitions in family businesses.
Establishing conflict resolution mechanisms like mediation clauses to settle disputes outside of court.

A structured estate plan ensures that inheritance disagreements do not escalate into costly legal battles.

Teaching Financial Responsibility to Heirs:

Wealth transfer is more effective when heirs understand how to manage their inheritance. Estate planning attorneys work with families to:

Educate younger generations on financial management and investment strategies.
Introduce heirs to financial advisors who can help them navigate wealth preservation.
Incorporate inheritance incentives that promote responsible spending and investment.

Without financial education, even a well-structured estate plan can fail to maintain generational wealth.

Estate Planning for Business Owners

Family businesses require careful succession planning to ensure stability after the founder’s passing. An estate planning attorney helps:

Identify and prepare successors for leadership transitions.
Establish buy-sell agreements to ensure smooth ownership transfers.
Structure ownership in trusts or LLCs to provide financial protection.

Companies often struggle to survive past the first generation without a business succession plan.

Secure Your Family’s Financial Legacy

Estate planning can bridge the gap between generational wealth. It will give you the confidence that your assets are preserved, managed wisely and passed down without unnecessary financial losses. if you would like to learn more about managing generational wealth, please visit our previous posts.

References: J.P. Morgan (Nov. 18, 2024) “We Need to Talk: Communicating Your Estate Plan With Your Family” and Business Insider (Feb. 9, 2025) “Inside the Retreat for Billionaire Heirs Trying to Give Away Their Money”

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Revising Estate Planning Ensures Assets Are Protected Post-Divorce

March 5, 2025

Divorce changes not only a person’s financial and personal life but also the way their assets will be handled after death. Many people overlook the importance of updating estate planning documents after a divorce, which can result in unintended beneficiaries receiving inheritances or former spouses retaining control over critical financial and medical decisions. Revising your estate planning ensures that assets are protected and aligned with post-divorce goals.

How Divorce Affects Your Estate Plan

Divorce changes personal and financial circumstances and how assets will be distributed after death. Many forget to update their estate plans, leaving former spouses as beneficiaries or decision-makers. Without revisions, an ex-spouse could inherit assets, manage finances, or make medical decisions in an emergency.

Key documents that need immediate attention include wills, trusts, powers of attorney and beneficiary designations on life insurance and retirement accounts. Updating these ensures that assets go to intended heirs and that financial and medical decisions remain in trusted hands.

Updating Wills and Trusts

A divorce does not automatically remove an ex-spouse from an estate plan. If a will or trust still names the former spouse as a primary beneficiary or executor, they may inherit assets or retain authority over the estate. Updating key documents includes:

Revising a will to name new beneficiaries and executors
Amending or revoking any revocable trusts that include the former spouse
Reviewing state laws, some jurisdictions automatically void spousal provisions upon divorce, while others do not

Failing to update these documents may lead to unnecessary legal battles or the distribution of assets against the person’s wishes.

Changing Beneficiary Designations

Many financial assets pass directly to named beneficiaries outside of a will, making beneficiary updates essential after divorce. Documents to review include:

Life insurance policies and retirement accounts, such as 401(k)s and IRAs
Payable-on-death (POD) and transfer-on-death (TOD) accounts
Jointly held assets or real estate with right of survivorship

If an ex-spouse remains listed as a beneficiary, they may still receive these assets, regardless of the divorce decree. Updating beneficiary designations ensures that assets go to the intended individuals.

Adjusting Powers of Attorney and Healthcare Directives

Divorce often necessitates appointing new individuals to manage financial and medical decisions in case of incapacity. Changes to consider include:

Naming a new power of attorney for financial matters
Revising a healthcare proxy to designate a trusted individual for medical decisions
Ensuring that living wills and advance directives reflect current wishes

Leaving a former spouse in control of these decisions can lead to unintended complications, particularly in medical emergencies.

Secure Your Legacy with an Updated Estate Plan

Divorce requires more than financial separation—it demands a complete estate plan review to prevent unintended consequences. Revising your estate planning to reflect your current wishes is critical to protecting your assets post-divorce. If you would like to learn more about planning post-divorce, please visit our previous posts.

References: Investopedia (June 25, 2024) “Rewriting Your Will After Divorce” and Justia (September 2024) “Estate Planning After Divorce”

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The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 1 is out now!

March 3, 2025

The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 1 is out now! In this episode of the ESTATE OF THE UNION, Brad Wiewel is going to share with you how to SUPER STRETCH an IRA!

Here’s some background: Retirement accounts like IRAs, 401ks and 403bs are subject to a myriad of new rules on how fast the money needs to be distributed to a non-spouse beneficiary. While there are exceptions, for the vast majority of beneficiaries, the money must be emptied out in ten years, which means that those funds are going to be subject to taxes more quickly and now they are growing in a “taxable” environment.

Enter the Testamentary Charitable Remainder Trust (weird name, right?). As Brad describes it, this trust which can be part of a revocable living trust or a will, and it allows the ultimate beneficiaries (kids, etc.) to take the retirement account distributions over their LIFETIME (Super Stretch), not just ten years! Brad paints the BIG picture and gives enough details for it to make sense to you.

In each episode of The Estate of The Union podcast, host and lawyer Brad Wiewel will give valuable insights into the confusing world of estate planning, making an often daunting subject easier to understand. It is Estate Planning Made Simple! The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 1 is out now! The episode can be found on Spotify, Apple podcasts, or anywhere you get your podcasts. If you would prefer to watch the video version, please visit our YouTube page. Please click on the links to listen to or watch the new installment of The Estate of The Union podcast. We hope you enjoy it.

What If a Beneficiary Dies Before Receiving an Inheritance?

February 27, 2025

Estate plans are designed to distribute assets according to the wishes of the deceased. So what if a beneficiary dies before receiving an inheritance? Complications arise when a named beneficiary dies before receiving their inheritance. Depending on the terms of the will, the existence of a contingent beneficiary and state probate laws, the inheritance may be reassigned, redirected, or absorbed back into the estate.

Factors that Determine What Happens to Inheritance

Many well-prepared estate plans account for the possibility of a beneficiary predeceasing the testator (the person creating the will). These plans typically include contingent beneficiaries, who receive the inheritance if the primary beneficiary is no longer alive.

1. Does the Will or Trust Have a Contingency Plan?

For example, if a will states:
“I leave my home to my son, John, but if he predeceases me, the home shall pass to my granddaughter, Sarah.”

In this case, Sarah, the contingent beneficiary, would inherit the home. The inheritance may follow default legal rules if no contingent beneficiary is named.

2. The Role of Anti-Lapse Laws

Many states have anti-lapse statutes that automatically redirect an inheritance to the deceased beneficiary’s descendants if no alternate beneficiary is named. These laws prevent an inheritance from becoming part of the residual estate.

For instance, if a father leaves an inheritance to his son, but the son dies before him, an anti-lapse statute may ensure the son’s children receive the inheritance instead. However, these laws typically apply only to direct family members, such as children or siblings, and may not cover more distant relatives or unrelated beneficiaries.

3. How Trusts Handle a Beneficiary’s Death

If an inheritance is placed in a trust, the trust document will govern what happens when a beneficiary dies. Many trusts name successor beneficiaries to take over the deceased beneficiary’s share.

For example, in a revocable living trust, assets may be divided among multiple children, with instructions that if one child dies, their share passes to their own children (the grantor’s grandchildren). If no successor beneficiary is named, the assets may be distributed according to the trust’s default terms or state law.

4. What Happens If No Contingent Beneficiary Exists?

If a deceased beneficiary was the sole heir and no contingent beneficiary is named, the inheritance may return to the estate’s residual beneficiaries – those who inherit any remaining assets after specific bequests are made. If no such beneficiaries exist, assets are typically distributed according to intestacy laws, which vary by state.

Under intestacy laws, assets are generally distributed to the deceased’s closest living relatives, such as spouses, children, or siblings. The estate may eventually escheat to the state if no heirs can be located.

5. Special Considerations for Spouses and Joint Ownership

Jointly Owned Property with Survivorship Rights: This property type automatically transfers to the surviving co-owner if one owner dies. This often applies to real estate, bank accounts, or investments held as joint tenants.
Community Property Laws: In certain states, these laws may influence how a deceased spouse’s assets are distributed. If the deceased beneficiary was a spouse, their estate share may follow marital property laws.

Steps Executors Should Take If a Beneficiary Dies

If a named beneficiary passes away before receiving their inheritance, the estate executor must:

Review the will or trust to determine if a contingent beneficiary is named.
Check state anti-lapse laws to see if the deceased beneficiary’s children or heirs inherit their share.
Identify residual beneficiaries if no direct heirs are listed.
Distribute the inheritance accordingly, either to another named beneficiary or through intestate succession.
Consult a probate attorney if the estate’s distribution remains unclear or disputed.

How to Prevent Issues in Your Estate Plan

To avoid complications when a beneficiary dies before receiving their inheritance, consider these estate planning best practices:

Regularly update your will or trust to reflect changes in family dynamics.
Name contingent beneficiaries for all major assets to ensure a clear inheritance path.
Use a trust to create structured distributions that automatically account for beneficiary changes.
Review state laws to understand how anti-lapse statutes and intestacy rules may impact estate distribution.

Ensuring a Smooth Transition

An estate plan should be flexible enough to adapt to life’s uncertainties, including the unexpected passing of a beneficiary. By including clear contingencies and understanding inheritance laws, you can ensure that assets pass efficiently to the intended heirs without unnecessary legal challenges. If you would like to learn more about beneficiaries, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: SmartAsset (June 21, 2023) “What Happens to an Inheritance If a Beneficiary Has Died?”

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Post-Nuptial Agreement can help Couples avoid Conflicts

February 19, 2025

Marriage later in life—often called a “gray marriage”—is becoming increasingly common as people remarry after divorce or the loss of a spouse. While love and companionship are at the heart of these unions, financial and legal complexities should not be overlooked. A post-nuptial agreement can help couples align their financial goals, protect assets and avoid potential conflicts, ensuring long-term security for both partners.

What Is a Postnuptial Agreement?

A postnuptial agreement is a legally binding contract created between spouses after marriage (as opposed to a prenuptial agreement, which the parties create before marriage). It outlines how to handle assets, debts and financial responsibilities during the marriage and in the event of divorce or death. Unlike a prenuptial agreement signed before marriage, a post-nuptial agreement allows couples to adjust their financial arrangements as circumstances evolve.

Why Postnuptial Agreements Matter in Later Life

For couples in a gray marriage, a post-nuptial agreement can clarify financial rights, protect inheritances for children from previous relationships and establish expectations regarding healthcare and estate planning.

Protecting Retirement Assets

Many older couples enter marriage with substantial retirement savings, real estate and other financial assets. Without explicit agreements, these assets may be subject to division in the event of divorce, potentially jeopardizing retirement security. A post-nuptial agreement can specify how these funds will be managed and allocated.

Ensuring Inheritance for Children and Heirs

In second or later marriages, spouses may have children from prior relationships. A post-nuptial agreement can ensure that specific assets or family heirlooms remain designated for biological children or grandchildren rather than automatically passing them to the surviving spouse. This arrangement helps prevent inheritance disputes and aligns estate planning goals.

Managing Debt Responsibility

Later-in-life marriages often involve individuals who have accumulated debts, including mortgages, business obligations, or personal loans. A post-nuptial agreement can clarify which debts are jointly shared and which remain the responsibility of the original borrower, preventing unexpected financial burdens.

Addressing Healthcare and Long-Term Care Costs

As couples age, medical expenses and long-term care costs become increasingly relevant. A post-nuptial agreement can outline how these costs will be covered, whether through shared finances, separate assets, or long-term care insurance. It can also specify healthcare decision-making responsibilities, if one spouse becomes incapacitated.

Clarifying Financial Expectations and Support

Some spouses in gray marriages may choose to keep their finances separate, while others prefer joint accounts. A post-nuptial agreement can establish clear expectations about how expenses, investments and financial support will be handled, reducing the likelihood of misunderstandings.

How to Create a Post-Nuptial Agreement

Couples should begin by discussing their financial goals, individual assets and any concerns about estate planning or debt. It’s important to be transparent about existing financial obligations and expectations for the future.

Work with an Attorney

A post-nuptial agreement should be drafted with an experienced attorney who understands family law and estate planning. Each spouse should have their own legal counsel to ensure that the agreement is fair and enforceable.

Ensure Full Disclosure

For a post-nuptial agreement to be legally valid, both spouses must fully disclose their assets, debts and financial interests. Any attempt to hide financial information could lead to the agreement being challenged in court.

Review and Update as Needed

As financial circumstances change, reviewing and updating the agreement periodically is important. Major life events like retirement, health changes, or new financial goals may warrant revisions.

Are Post-Nuptial Agreements Legally Enforceable?

Post-nuptial agreements are legally recognized in most states. However, courts will assess them based on fairness, financial disclosure and whether both spouses entered into the agreement voluntarily. If an agreement is unfair or was signed under duress, a court may choose not to enforce it.

Strengthening a Marriage through Financial Clarity

A post-nuptial agreement is not just about protecting assets – it can also help couples avoid conflicts and strengthen a marriage by fostering open communication and reducing financial uncertainty. By addressing financial concerns proactively, couples in gray marriages can focus on building a secure and fulfilling future together. If you would like to learn more about post-nuptial agreements, please visit our previous posts.

Reference: AARP (Nov. 15, 2024) “The Marriage Agreement Every Gray Couple Should Sign (and It’s Not a Prenup)”

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Category: Heirs

Steps to Avoid Inheritance Issues in Second Marriages

Many Ways to Include a Charity in Your Estate Plan

Care for Your Pets After You Pass with a Pet Trust

The Estate of The Union Season 4|Episode 2 is out now!

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